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Same-Sex Marriage Support Grows But Not Because of Obama

Americans' attitudes toward same-sex marriage are changing but not because of President Barack Obama's endorsement of the issue, according to a poll released by the Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life.

The poll of 2,973 Americans between June 28-July 9, 2012 found that while partisan divide on the issue "continues to widen," support for same-sex marriage continues to increase among most groups.

Pew attributed the increases in large part to "generational replacement—the arrival of younger, more supportive generations making up a larger share of the population—"rather than presidential support of the issue.

The poll found that Obama's endorsement of same-sex marriage earlier this year rallied Democratic support but little else.

"While President Obama’s endorsement of gay marriage earlier this year drew significant news coverage and public interest, its effect on public opinion has been limited," according to the Pew poll.

Gov. Martin O'Malley signed into law a bill that legalizes same-sex marriages in Maryland.

Opponents have forced the bill to a referendum vote in November.

JDStuts

2:32 pm on Tuesday, July 31, 2012

As a conservative, to watch the left's continued opposition to same sex marriage is infuriating.

Americans should be in a tizzy that in 2012 our government assumes the right to restrict whom people wish to marry. That politicians would willing restrict American liberties based on what, a religious belief, is against everything our forefathers stood for.

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Tim

2:54 pm on Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Funny how you conveniently ignore the fact that Republicans are far more opposed to same sex marriage. Or maybe you didn't notice this linked poll off of the Pew Forum link: http://www.pewforum.org/Politics-and-Elections/2012-opinions-on-for-gay-marriage-unchanged-after-obamas-announcement.aspx

Republicans are anti same-sex marriage by a margin of 70-24.

Oh, the hypocrisy.

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Daniel Ewald

2:56 pm on Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Pretty sure you meant "the right" as to who is continuing to oppose equality. Almost no one on "the right" in Annapolis voted for the bill, and most of the money is coming from organizations which typically support "the right" on social issues.

Any opposition from "leftists" is likely from people who think marriage is a waste for anyone.

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Tim

2:59 pm on Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Edit: I should add, JD, that you specifically may certainly be supportive of same sex marriages - and good on you if this is the case. It is, truly, the more conservative stance to take.

Many Republicans can't seem to get their heads around this, though. They are too busy trying to interject religion into government wherever they can.

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NO2O

1:00 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

JD ... what are you smoking? Our country was built and based on religious beliefs. That is what our forefathers stood for.

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Ashley

2:17 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

NO2O... Our forefathers stood for FREEDOM. Not religion.

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Joe

3:31 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Ashley, why did they leave England? I seem to remember something about religious persecution.

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NO2O

3:52 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Joe ... don't confuse Ashley with facts

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Ashley

4:04 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

They left to have the freedom to practice whatever religion they wanted. The key part of that being the freedom part.

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Joe

4:13 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

"Our forefathers stood for FREEDOM. Not religion."
"They left to have the freedom to practice whatever religion they wanted."

What a dichotomy.

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Ashley

4:21 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

The point is they came to this country for the freedom to pursue the life they wanted, not to have someone tell them what to believe in. You'll notice religion is left out of the Declaration of Independence.

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Joe

4:28 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Religion was NOT left out of the Declaration Ashley, at least not America's Declaration of Independence. I am sure you have been out of school fewer years than I so you should know better that that.
"When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.-"

I hope you read the rest of that document Ashley and read a lot more as well before you post such nonsense again.

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Ashley

4:47 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Who is "Nature's God"? There is no mention of a religion itself in the document. Fun fact: A lot of our forefathers practiced Deism. If you're not familiar with that it's a religious philosophy that God never intervenes in human affairs or suspends the laws of the universe. They also reject supernatural events like prophecy and miracles. Essentially they believed that a God built the universe, but left it to run itself.

You'll also notice that after the only mention of "God" you brought up is the following: "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness."

Notice that part that says "their creator".

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Ashley

5:00 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

What? Don't like having pointed out that forcing your belief on everyone goes against everything this country stands for?

And before you guys jump onto the "their creator" part, it's relative. Your creator to you may be some God, to others it's a different one, to others it's the people they call their parents. It's subjective. This country wasn't founded on religious principles, it was founded on the belief that we are all free to pursue our lives how we wish and to be happy.

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Arbutus Town Crier

8:16 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Dam Joe, You know the truth too, but you know they think they know better, why did they leave England? not the King! he was a puppet

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Arbutus Town Crier

8:28 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

@Ashley If you didn't you will now. GOD is a generic Plus I even been told from Muslims "your God is our god too" Go to the library and ask for a book on God and see what answer you get!

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Ashley

8:47 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

That's my point Arbutus. The freedom of choice. No specific religion mentioned. This is not a "Christian" nation. It's a mixed bag one, there are people of many beliefs in this country, that's what our founding fathers intended. I think it's absurd that any religious group would try and impose their beliefs into the law. The law is meant to be in favor of ALL the people, not just those that hold a certain religious view. Marriage isn't exclusive to Christians and the argument that this country was founded on religious beliefs is getting old. The bible said it's okay to have slaves, but you don't them out harvesting the crops anymore, do you?

Religion and government shouldn't be mixing at all. Ever. A lot of people will fall back onto saying that the ten commandments (Do not kill, do not steal, etc.) have been the basis for our laws, but the truth is that those principles are ones that every person can live by and they aren't any more exclusive to Christianity than marriage is.

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Arbutus Town Crier

10:15 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Ashley, it was about and break away from the Pope Who controlled England thatis what is overlooked in history, Deism, promotes reason and freethinking, and argues against institutionalized religion in general and Christian doctrine in particular. Da Vinci Vs. Ben Franklin? Pope locked up Da Vinci, Franklin on the other hand was able to produce inventions for advance human kind. Da Vinci was ruled by religion and stifled! So Freethinkers & free speech the Pope hated the American Catholic because he had no control of there free speech and questioning his authority. Nature, Common Sense, DEISM is not a religion but Philosophy, Franklin in his autobiography Franklin makes it clear that he was a Deist. Nonetheless, it is also apparent that Franklin had great respect for the teachings of Jesus. Franklin had this to say a month before he died in a letter to Ezra Stiles. As to Jesus of Nazareth, my opinion of whom you particularly desire, I think the System of Morals and his Religion, as he left them to us, the best the world ever saw or is likely to see; but I apprehend it has received various corrupt changes, and I have, with most of the present Dissenters in England, some Doubts as to his divinity; tho’ it is a question I do not dogmatize upon, having never studied it, and I think it needless to busy myself with it now, when I expect soon an Opportunity of knowing the Truth with less Trouble. It took to the time of JFK and his assertion to God not the Pope …Common sense!

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Ashley

11:01 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

You have completely missed my point.

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Arbutus Town Crier

5:47 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Ashley, I got your point I'm just telling you how and why your point was created by the FF,

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Able Baker

4:39 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Incorrect. The Puritans were not fleeing the Pope. England was Anglican at the time, but had extremely restrictive laws about who could conduct religious ceremonies and forced people to attend official services. Learn your history.

JDStuts

4:27 pm on Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Tim,

With respect, please do not confuse my conservative beliefs with Republican ideology. Mine is a philosophy of independence, the other is a political party I'll have nothing to do with.

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Tim

8:43 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

JD: This is why I included my second comment, to cover that base, but I appreciate you clarifying your own personal view on this.
It just struck me initially as very suspect, even a trolling attempt (heh), at pointing out that some on the left still don't support this.

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franking

12:49 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

There is nothing "independent" about demanding a special tax break and tax status for a relationship that's of no benefit to the state. It's not even any benefit to families. In fifty years it won't matter if Uncle Bill and Uncle Bob were "married" to each other or not, because they're a dead branch on the tree.

Counterfeits cheapen the real thing.

Joe

4:50 pm on Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Until marriage is open TO ALL even multiples, it is discrimination. -

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M. Sullivan

4:59 pm on Tuesday, July 31, 2012

"Multiples" ? How about marriage of people to their pets? Or their favorite house plant? Or people and their I-phones? (That would come naturally).

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Mark Patro

7:18 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Joe, How about you stop this ridiculous argument. Sex with animals or marriage to animals has no more to do with gay or lesbian relationships than it has to do with heterosexual relationships. You make yourself look idiotic when you put for this argument.

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Joe

7:46 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Mark Patro, excuse me!!?? I said noting about animals sir.
M Sullivan brought that into it not me sir.
An apology is warranted!

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Ashley

2:20 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Love it when the fools compare consenting adults to an animal or an inanimate object.

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Mark Patro

3:46 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

My apologies Joe, that should have been directed toward --> M. Sullivan

SOUTHWESTMINSTER

5:31 pm on Tuesday, July 31, 2012

It is no one else's business if two men or two women want to get married. Two people of the same sex who love each other should be allowed to publicly celebrate their commitment and receive the same benefits of marriage as opposite sex couples.

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AllStar

12:49 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

It's because all the young people are brainwashed by the liberal school systems and colleges. There is only one perspective that is being deemed acceptable. You either get in line or you are ostracized for your beliefs. I dealt with it first hand in college and grad school. Our children are being taught that homosexuals have no control over their behavior and that men having sex with men is just as normal as men having sex with women. These are both outright lies that are being force-fed to children and young people disguised as veracity.

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Paul Amirault

6:40 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Ken have you ever considered the possibility that the brainwashing was of you and was done over hundreds of years?

"You either get in line or you are ostracized for your beliefs" - isn't that what has been done to homosexuals for thousands of years? Ostracized is a mild term in some cultures, executed is more accurate.

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Damien Gibbons

7:10 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Don't waste your time, Paul. From the moment he wrote "liberal school systems" it became clear he's another one of those people who blame all the country's problems on the left and believes the right can do no wrong. We could explain things calmly and logically, but it wouldn't matter: he's made up his mind already. That's what happens when you let Rush Limbaugh and Bill O'Reilly do your thinking for you.

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Arbutus Town Crier

8:00 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Brainwashed by the liberal school systems? YES I have to agree. BUT homosexuals have no control over their behavior? to a degree but if you look into Genetics Genes correspond to regions within DNA and that is just as having cancer in family history,even American Indians had them. but this issue is about the word "Marriage" not what people do behind closed doors.The Flaming homosexual can not change there genetics. We have to not accept ,respect but tolerate and let them live there lives. I don't like IN YOUR FACE PROUD liberal homosexual "actions", not the life style. and some of my homosexual friends agree with my statement. The word "Marriage" I don't want to redefine that word PERIOD!
Find a different title that will give them the same rights. and keep religion out of it that is ur personal belief and not judge other.

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Tim

8:46 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Says the guy who's been brainwashed by thousands of years of religion that's factually impossible to prove (or disprove, for that matter).

That's rich.

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NO2O

12:01 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

I find it interesting that Gibbons feels that schools do not have a liberal bias. Obviously he has not been paying attention to the curriculum being taught in schools. To teach anything that is religion based is not permitted in public schools. The school system is being run by unions not by the parents. It appears that he gets all his news for NBC or CBS and heaven forbid (if that offends ... to bad) anyone, be it Bill O'Reilly or anyone else has a differing opinion.
One other point (this should fire liberals up) in order to accept same sex marriage as law the law against sodomy must also be eliminated. hummmmmmmmm

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FIFA_archived

12:18 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

NO2O - where have you been living. I hate linking to Wikipedia but it is accurate enough for this purpose.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lawrence_v._Texas

What rhymes with hummmmmmmmmm, dummmmmmmmmmmm!

That was about 10 years ago.

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NO2O

12:58 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

FIFA. I stand corrected however if you read the dissenting opinion it states Scalia wrote that if the court was not prepared to validate laws based on moral choices as it had done in Bowers, state laws against bigamy, same-sex marriage, adult incest, prostitution, masturbation, adultery, fornication, bestiality, and obscenity would not prove sustainable.

Personal attack ... must be a Obumer liberal. Tax and spend, tax and spend

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FIFA_archived

5:36 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

NO2O - did you read what you posted. If masturbation was illegal almost everyone would be a criminal, I hope! Dumb post and Scalia exhibited more of why he belongs in a zoo.

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Eleanor

5:11 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Kenneth you are absolutely right. The children are being bombarded with men kissing men and women kissing women in a sexual way. "The New Normal" is a TV program that shows gays and lesbians in a way that makes children think the actions of these people are moral. "Pretty Little Liars" and "Glee" are two more programs that expose children to this kind of behavior. This behavior is not normal...it is against nature.

Rose

7:25 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Look into the millions that ChixFilet has donated to fight against the rights of gay citizens. It's in their tax records. GLAAD fights back. You betcha. As a straight woman who has been married for decades to the same man, I'll be frying my own chicken. Equal rights for ALL.

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Joe

7:50 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

So what? Any American can donate to who they desire just as you do. If you don't like who they donate to don't buy their products. Quite a simple concept.

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Tree

8:19 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Being against ChicFilA for theIr Christian stance is the same for being against GLAAD for their gay rights stance. Everyone is entitled to their belief system whether it's your belief system or not. You are being just as discriminatory.

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Paul Amirault

8:31 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Tree - does not compute. Those against Chick-Fil-a's owner's anti-gay position don't believe so because he is Christian. He could be an atheist for that matter. They don't like the fact that they support anti-gay groups. Doesn't matter if they are Christian or not.

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Joe

9:23 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Still waiting Frank for you to show GM paid back all their taxpayer money.....

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Joe

9:58 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

We are not really waiting Frank. We all know you lied.

Geoffrey Atkinson

7:52 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Well gay marriage might be a boost for the economy. I am conservative as well - I don't see where I have the right to tell someone they can't do something that doesn't effect me (regardless of the fact that I find it somewhat disgusting).

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Arbutus Town Crier

8:39 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

short and simple! my issue is changing of the definition marriage that all, because it is not the same and requires a simple non-discrimination wording but not marriage!

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Tim

8:46 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

That's just it. True conservatives have no issue with same-sex marriage.

Paul

9:28 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

I just met a (male) Irish Setter on the street the other day. That Irish Setter understands me like no one else ever could. I can't wait for the Same-sex marriage issue to become law. I hope it is written so as not to discriminate about species intermarrying. Why should it! Who should be telling me who (or what) I can marry? The Setter is a seeing-eye dog so he has a good job, gets paid well, and pays taxes too. We plan to spend lots of our married life at the new dog park. See you there!

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JDStuts

9:43 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Look if you are into bestiality, that's on you and I urge you to seek medical help. The laws on the books preventing it are based on animal cruelty. Paul you may very well love that Irish Setter but from an anatomical analysis, your attempts to engage in sexual contact with that animal will result in physical harm to the dog. That is rationale behind the laws and why you should seek help.

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Joe

9:59 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Frank has proven once again he is 9 years old.

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Paul

10:16 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

JD,
I don't believe I mentioned that this marriage would be consumated, did I? Why did your mind immediately run to the gutter? Sick.
Frank,
Are you saying that my dog is not my "loved one"? You seem to be implying that marrying my dog would be perverse in some way. Who are you to judge? Or is this just not "normal" for you?

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JDStuts

10:42 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Paul,

A court will easily void a marriage if one of the parties refuses to consummate the marriage.

Maybe this whole discussion is a little beyond your grasp if you weren't even aware of the legal and physical aspects of love.

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Paul

10:50 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

JD,
Neither of us plan to have the marriage voided but thanks for your concern. I guess cancer patients and paraplegics that can't consummate their marriages should never be allowed to marry either? Glad you have such a firm grasp on the legal system.

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FIFA_archived

10:50 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Paul is trying to get you to fall for the old straw man argument, make a proposition that no one is seriously proposing to bolster his argument. Go back to the World of Oz to visit your straw man.

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Paul

11:02 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Straw man, FIFA? I think not. See the wikipedia link. Our numbers may be small but we are growing!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human%E2%80%93animal_marriage

I guess you guys are not too comfortable with this idea but maybe someday you will be forced to accept this and have to provide taxpayer funded services for us animal lovers. I'm thinking of naming my dog "Harvey Milkbone".

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FIFA_archived

11:19 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Paul - yes straw man. No one is seriously proposing animal marriage.

You reference a "Wikipedia" as your support? Come on. From this Wikipedia page the first disclaimer is"

"This article needs additional citations for verification. Please help improve this article by adding citations to reliable sources. Unsourced material may be challenged and removed. (June 2011)"

Then they list 10 "known" cases in all history. Classic example of straw man argument. Ridiculous. Cowardly Lion please come save me from the Scarecrow ("Straw Man")!

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Paul

11:25 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

FIFA,
I figured you knew how to research on the internet, so I didn't include all of the other references. The point is (obviously lost on you) that just because this group is a minority doesn't mean they too shouldn't have the same rights as the rest of us, correct? Or are you going to write the new marriage laws as you see fit?

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FIFA_archived

11:28 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Paul, like I said, it is a straw man argument by the very definition.

No one is seriously proposing allowing man-animal marriage. I can't make it any clearer, have a great day.

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SOUTHWESTMINSTER

11:44 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

" That Irish Setter understands me like no one else ever could." Sounds like true love. I wish you all the beast. ;)

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Paul

1:09 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

FIFA,
No one needs to "propose" allowing man-animal marriage. It's already been done. You still miss the point so it is best that you just bail out.

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FIFA_archived

1:39 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

I'll let others judge your need for beastiality. Woof woof, through you a bone?

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Paul

1:51 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

FIFA,
Pretty sure the beastiality issue has already been discussed (no need there) and the correct spelling is throw, not through. GED in your future?

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FIFA_archived

1:59 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Guess you know how you get your bones.

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Joe

4:16 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

"through you a bone?" Where is the Language Nazi when it is a progressive?

Joe

9:58 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Things are not looking good for Obama and the black vote he so relies on.
"Black pastors group launches anti-Obama campaign around gay marriage"
"A group of conservative black pastors are responding to President Barack Obama’s support of same-sex marriage with what they say will be a national campaign aimed at rallying black Americans to rethink their overwhelming support of the President, though the group’s leader is offering few specifics about the effort.

The Rev. Williams Owens, who is president and founder of the Coalition of African-Americans Pastors and the leader of the campaign, has highlighted opposition to same-sex marriage among African-Americans. He calls this campaign “an effort to save the family.”"

http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2012/07/31/black-pastors-group-launches-anti-obama-campaign-around-gay-marriage/

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Chris (CP) Powell

10:14 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

I think government should just get out of the marriage business entirely. If civil unions are good enough for some, then they should be good enough for all. The government can issue civil contracts with no discrimination based on gender, and churches can decide who they want to view as "married". Everyone wins!

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Paul

10:31 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Chris,
I desperately need my government to tell me what to do and how to live. And you should need that too! You don't need to have any opinion or desire to live by any standard other than the one that they know is right for you. The government will decide if any special interest or squeeky wheel out there has become big enough to be politically viable and worth their attention (votes). This has nothing to do with what you want. You and your moral code as an individual don't really count.

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JDStuts

10:46 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Agreed.

Why is perfectly legal to enter a business contract with any straight, gay, white, black, man or woman you choose but illegal to marry one?

Evets

10:53 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Joe - about that GM thing (which I really do not care about)

from http://www.dailyfinance.com/2012/02/17/gm-posts-record-earnings-is-it-ready-to-repay-bailout/ :
Technically speaking, GM already has "paid back" the bailout -- some of it in cash, the rest with GM stock. The problem is this: If the government sold its stock at current prices, it wouldn't quite recoup what it lent to GM during the economic crisis. That's what commentators mean when they say that GM hasn't yet "paid back" taxpayers. In fact, the company has done exactly what it promised. But the stock price hasn't cooperated -- and that reflects badly on GM, particularly in comparison with rival Ford, which chose to borrow money privately instead of taking a government bailout."

from http://money.cnn.com/2012/02/16/news/companies/gm_bailout/index.htm :
"And, particularly in the case of GM, it seems unlikely the taxpayer will be made whole anytime soon. Treasury holds 500 million shares of GM stock, those represent about one third of the company and if sold at today's prices, they would be worth about $13 billion.
The stock would need to roughly double in price for taxpayers to break even. Analysts predict a much more modest rise in the stock price in 2012."

Guess it depends on your perspective...

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Evets

11:05 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

And sorry to post off-topic...

tom jode

11:07 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

The question really being posed is: What is marriage in any given state or society, and what does that society want marriage to be?

Who can get married is really only a corollary of what the meaning of marriage is.

Voting for same sex marriage is not merely a vote to give government benefits to a new group of couples, but to change our social understanding of marriage, and this has nothing to do with religion.

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FIFA_archived

11:59 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

tom jode - substitute the word "slavery" for "marriage/same sex marriage" and "be a slave" for "get married" and "slaves" for "couples", and this has nothing to do with racism. Really.

You can do the same with voting rights, etc. Really.

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Paul

1:10 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

FIFA,
Where do you get your anti-reality drugs?

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FIFA_archived

1:37 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Paul you talking to me? You are the one with the fetish for the Irish Setter. Guess you like long hair too.

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FIFA_archived

2:30 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Paul will probably get a cage and a leash for his new spouse too. He'll have to be careful when he goes to the new dog park. His Irish Setter spouse might want to "stray". I hope his health plan has contraceptive coverage.

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Paul

2:56 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

I guess the concept of sarcasm is a new one for FIFA. I'd say go look it up in the dictionary, but I'm pretty sure that is a new concept for him too.

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Paul

3:10 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

I'm pretty sure that Frank and FIFA look an awful lot like Beavis and Butthead.

Rick Hudson

11:15 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

A lot of the opposition that comes from specifically religous instituions is the slippery slope argument. Currently the law allows for an exemption for clergy to refuse to peform them, which is appropriate. No Catholic Priest should be required to perform them. But that which the state gives the state can take away, and that is a major concern to religous institutions. In 20 years will they be mandated to perform them?

Personally, I believe there is no constitutional argument to prevent it but the protections for religous groups/institutions needs to be included and kept permanently.

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Arbutus Town Crier

12:12 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

I really hate to inform you but behind closed doors they are jumping up and down for this decision to pass. No Catholic Priest should be required to perform them? no because those leaders over centuries believe in it, but with there reputation and why they are not on the regular data base? http://bishop-accountability.org/priestdb/PriestDBbydiocese.html......bet you never saw this! out of site out of mind.....former RC

Leslie Schildgen

11:29 am on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

I've never been polled on anything. How do I get in on these polls

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Barbie JoKo

12:00 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

I'm sick of the gay agenda. Sick of the gay lifestyle being jammed down my throat. I'm kind and tolerate to all individuals. But, this particular special interest group makes me gag.

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Susan

12:39 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

And I'm sick of people saying they are sick of having "the gay lifestyle being jammed down" their throats. All gays want is to be treated equal...not separate, but equal (i.e. civil unions)...just equal. Why is that so hard to understand?

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Able Baker

4:44 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Right wingers sure do like to imagine things getting jammed down their throats.

Barbie JoKo

12:15 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Why was the country outraged at Sandusky's behavior? Oh wait, I know bc the boys were teenagers. From a purely physical/sexual standpoint those acts are completely acceptable, right? I believe it's gonna be a rough ride in the future.....hang on peeps cause anything goes!!! PS: I like the guy who wants to marry his Irish Setterer. Now that's love.

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Barbara Snyder

12:27 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Barbie: No one has ever said or implied that rape of boys is acceptable.

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JDStuts

1:22 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Occasionally, a commenter will write something that is easily dismissed with a head shake and a ping of sadness that they never attempted to actualize themselves.

Then sometimes, just sometimes, the ignorance and lack of empathy you so clearly demonstrated causes me to question the meaning of life it the world is filled with such rot.

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FIFA_archived

1:35 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Troll Alert, Barbie JoKo is making first posts today. Just a troll, igniter it.

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FIFA_archived

1:58 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Yes, but a funny one, that's why I left it.

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Arbutus Town Crier

2:25 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Like an Alcoholic' children scenario, they become predictors or self destructive or a survivor

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Arbutus Town Crier

2:32 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

about my comment prior but that has nothing to do with Genetic's and how the brain is wired, for adults and there choice,

but the sick minded that cause people a destructive life style and issues of trust!

Me

1:29 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

It's not for me to decide if homosexuality is right or wrong, but like everything else that gets people bickering (i.e., religion), I don't want it forced upon me. Why do people with different beliefs need to shout it from the rooftops? Are they looking for approval? And why is it that the people who scream the loudest about "tolerance" are, themselves, highly intolerant of any belief system or lifestyle that disagrees with their own?

"This guy" has every right to be gay, and "that guy" has a right to dislike having "this guy's" sexual preferance shoved in his face. The problem lies within taking away "that guy's" right to free speech in order to accomodate "this guy's" lifestyle. Equal? Yes. Special? NO.

And I've got a news flash for everyone who thinks that politicians give a s*it about gay marriage -- they don't. As usual, all they care about is tax money; if gays are allowed to form civil unions, then they'll pay more in taxes like married people. Didn't anyone else notice that O'Smarmy came out in support of it RIGHT AFTER they announced tax increases on INDIVIDUALS who make $100,000+, and MARRIED COUPLES who make $150,000+? Do the math. Gay or straight, it really doesn't pay to be married in the state of Maryland....

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Leslie Schildgen

1:32 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

I agree with everything you just said, Me. Especially the part about other people who scream the loudest about "tolerance" are, themselves, highly intolerant of any belief system or lifestyle that disagrees with their own?

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Tim

2:11 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Please.
No one is louder and more self-righteous then "The Religious Right".

If homosexuals hadn't been repressedfor the past 40 years, by..you know...the religious right...maybe they wouldn't be shouting about this stuff now that they are finally getting some traction?

Of course, at some point it has to stop, but I don't think we're at that point yet.

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Me

3:25 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

@Tim? You used the collective term, "we" in your post...are you gay? I'm honestly not being snarky when I ask this, but if you ARE gay, what is it exactly that you want from society that you don't already have? I mean, I'm just curious. If gay marriage were universally accepted, then would gay people the world over declare victory and be happy? Will they have finally achieved everything they want? If you're NOT gay, can someone else answer those questions? Note to all: Trolling/name-calling replies will be ignored.

Also, I didn't write that it was strictly gay people shouting from the rooftops and intolerant; I was speaking in generalities. But since you mentioned the religious right, I might as well point out that their incessant preaching and pontificating on a variety of moral issues has caused many people to drift away from supporting their veiwpoints; this could very well happen to other groups who do the same.

And props to you for your post about Chick-Fil-A. In addition to their quality food, I also like them for the variety of fundraising that they do for schools, childrens' groups, rec centers and other pathetically under-funded organizations.

volunteer mom

1:58 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Drove past my local Chic-fil-A three times already today and it has been packed each time!! I love the fact that I live in a county with so many wonderful christians and people who value and honor our freedom of speech and religion!!!! God bless the USA and Chic-fil-A!!!!

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Tim

2:09 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Actually, Chic-Fil-A is one of the healthier fast food places to eat at, if you skip the waffle fries. A challenge, for sure. They are too good but most trips I can.
It's why limiting my Chic-Fil-A consumption over the past year or so has been somewhat challenging. See, this whole anti-gay thing with Chic-Fil-A is old news. For whatever reason, it's only now getting traction because they removed all doubt.

It's always busy because the customer service is always great and the food is considerablybetter then most classic fast food. It's got nothing to do with what the founder believes in, or doesn't believe in.

It's classic business principle: Provide a quality product at a reasonable price and people will buy it. Why buy a craptastic sandwich from other fast food places for the same price or more?

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Mary M.

2:17 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

All those fantastic Christians ready to pass judgement ... Yeah, that's what God calls us to do

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JDStuts

2:23 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Would God not bless Canada because they legalized same sex marriage? Is he certain of the border to ensure some random Canuck hiking in Alberta doesn't accidentally cross into Montana and pick up some blessing that rightly should have been awarded to a 'Murrican? There are places up in them mountains, you don't even know what side you are on.

And then what does God do about Windsor Ontario? The city is actually south of Detroit. Does he have to put some crazy English on his blessing like a pool ball to make sure Canada doesn't steal Michigan's grace?

Whew, theology is tough!

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Evets

4:33 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Frank - why resort to name calling? I'm a bigot because I ate at CFA today? Do you have some evidence for that? And obesity? I weigh 140 lbs soak and wet. Also, why would someone working their way to an early death be OK with you?

Stereotype much?

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Joe

8:52 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

"why resort to name calling?"

It seems to be all they have to offer. Are you surprised?

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FIFA_archived

2:14 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

That's funny! Joe the Pig, aka Mr. Homopromo.

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Joe

4:08 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Thank you so much FIFI for proving my point better than I ever could have.

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Tim

2:40 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

oh boy, this should be good...

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FIFA_archived

2:43 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Going to get hit out of the park. Swing away Frank!

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SOUTHWESTMINSTER

3:33 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

The post @ 11:29 AM was kinda funny too.

Leslie Schildgen

3:29 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Boycotts are definately UN AMERICAN.

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Joe

3:31 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Why? Is that not freedom of choice in its most powerful form?

Leslie Schildgen

3:33 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

I thought I was agreeing with you

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Leslie Schildgen

3:36 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Boycotting and bullying people not to solicit a business is not "freedom of choice in its most powerful form." I thought you were criticizing people using the right to boycott as unamerican. Sorry for the misinterpretation

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Mark Patro

1:08 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

A new poll of Maryland voters, by Hart Research Associates, shows that 54 percent favor the law, while 40 percent oppose it. (per the NYT) Now it all comes down to who actually goes to the polls on Nov 6th.

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Leslie Schildgen

1:33 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Okay. I vote yes. . . just leave Chick Fil-A out of it

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Leslie Schildgen

1:34 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Frank. . . that's pretty funny. . . throat rape . . . HA

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Justin

1:38 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

I am fine with same sex marriage....I am also fine with a large number 4 with a sweet tea and a side of Polynesian sauce.

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Frank Rizzo

3:41 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Staging a heterosexual kiss-in at the KFC in Mt. Vernon, who's with me?

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Leslie Schildgen

3:59 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

I'm in. . . okay Frank. . . first, give me a topic to bitch about so I can serve a purpose at the event

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Buck Harmon

4:21 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Topic...Campaign finance reform...

Buck Harmon

4:20 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Everyone should just become a Methodist....what ever "method" works for you.... these decisions come from within based on knowledge of the time. Continue the education ...choose a method that works for you and stick to it.

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SOUTHWESTMINSTER

4:30 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

As long as there is an Open Bar at the wedding who cares. ;)

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Laura Jackson

2:33 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

This is to Susan: You want a "civil union." That's fine. But, you cannot expect every American to vote for same-sex marriage (when it goes against some people's religious beliefs). If you have a partner and you want to see them in the hospital, then have an attorney draft something up for you and your partner. Anything an attorney writes up will give you the same benefits as if you were married. You can also draw up a living will giving your partner power of attorney. But, I do not agree with same-sex marriage, and yet I have been called a "bigot" for that! Gee--Eleanor, AllStar, Joe, and Volunteer Mom--where are you in the Same-Sex Marriage an Economic Imperative blog??? I'm getting blasted over there (as if I'm the only person opposing same-sex marriage because of my religious beliefs). What I don't care for is the immature name-calling, and especially one woman (AMY) who actually had the nerve to say to me that Jesus WAS/IS "gay"! I actually hate repeating what she said--but, I feel it is important for the Christians to recognize how out-of-control this topic has become by the Atheists saying because Jesus had 12 men following him all the time, that he loved his mother, and because he never got married or had children and then calling Jesus "GAY" is so vile/despicable. Calling ME names is one thing. Saying bad things about Jesus Christ is yet another.

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Brandon

2:46 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

Laura Jackson, "then have an attorney draft something up for you and your partner. Anything an attorney writes up will give you the same benefits as if you were married."

This is statement is very arrogant, each document you have "drafted up" cost $600 or more. There are more than one thousand documents, or more equaling a down payment on a house.

documents that you write up that have not been challenged in court have no history. So add to the cost of the documents the cost of ligation.

Regardless of your religious beliefs this CIVIL law has nothing to do with religion.

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Leslie Schildgen

3:03 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

I agree with Brandon. . . marriage is a CIVIL right in my opinion. Therefore should qualify for equal protection under the law. That's what the supreme court will argue (hopefully sooner than later).

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jnrentz1

2:04 pm on Sunday, September 30, 2012

The US Constitution is silent on marriage. And marriage is not a civil right.

John T.

3:28 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

Marriage gets cheapened when it's expanded to include 2 men or 2 women. Call it something else and allow for these couples to have the same rights afforded them, as well as Health insurance coverage for their partners. Otherwise, what's next? 1 man and 1 farm animal? 1 woman and 1 credit card? The point is other groups will step up and demand the same.

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jag

3:32 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

Right, because the distinction between consenting human beings and farm animals/credit cards is a really fuzzy, slippery slope. Good grief. I really hope this comment was a joke poking fun at homophobic people.

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Buck Harmon

3:32 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

How about using a term like "Modified Marriage" for all other than Man & Woman..?

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Tim

3:43 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

Buck: Separate but Equal isn't going to cut it. It didn't in the 60's, it won't now.

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Tim

3:44 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

John T: It's only cheapened to those who are morally deficient.

So, are you?

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Tim

3:47 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

Ashley: That is positively nuts

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Ashley

4:02 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

Tim: I absolutely agree. Just proving a point though ;)

Mark Patro

3:58 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

This referendum is about equality under the law and protecting religious freedom. And that is all it is about.

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Laura Jackson

4:00 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

Brandon: You say an attorney to draft up paperwork for you and your partner would cost $600.00? Well, you certainly have the option of typing up ANYTHING yourself. You can type up your own living will for that matter. It wouldn't cost you a dime. Just some time on your part. And, yes--as long as you type it up (find out the language needed by going online) and have the documents signed and notarized by both you and your partner, the documents are perfectly legal. So, skip the attorney. If you feel this strongly about it, then the option exists for you to do it yourself. And, if you feel so strongly about getting married, then there are plenty of States that recognize same-sex marriage already. Nobody is stopping you from doing what you want to do. Nobody.

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Laura Jackson

4:17 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012

LOL, Ashley--about your article where a woman marries a Seattle building. I suppose she was gay as well. And, the Seattle building was built "like a brick house; so mighty, mighty--just lettin' it all hang out. She's a brick house. . . ." So, apparently, Seattle also approves of same-sex marriage.

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Bill Hussein O'Stalin

9:26 am on Sunday, September 30, 2012

Same sex marriage has been voted down whenever it appeared on a ballot so the article is just a fantasy.

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Brandon

12:27 pm on Sunday, September 30, 2012

I hope you realize that "tradition" evolves. The votes are closer each time. Its a matter of time before the results come out different. You just might be surprised this election. Wouldn't it a kick in your gut if your home state was the first to vote the other way? "Times, they are a changin' "

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